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November 4, 2009 12:35pm EST

Another fabulous site I recently found called Naughty & Discreet, offers high quality sex toys that are free of harmful chemicals. Toxic Free Sex Toys is their motto. Their prices are fabulous, and they even offer a FREE product each week!

November 4, 2009 12:35pm EST

Check out this fabulous sex toy boutique I recently stumbled across! They offer sex toys, lingerie, eco-friendly lubricants, condoms, and more.

October 28, 2009 11:30pm EST

Ever stained your 600 count egyptian cotton sheets on your bed after a session of love making? Have you ever spilled silicone lubricant all over your couch? Yeah, me too. Let's face it, sex can be a messy business. I'm certainly not complaining, but if I can save a good pair of linens, I'm going to do that, and now I know how. The Fascinator Throe from Liberator is a super sexy way to make post-nookie clean up a breeze. I recently got my hands on the Shag Throe in a gorgeous deep purple color. I can't stop touching it! It's luscious and plush and so soft and smooth. One side of the throw is silky smooth satin, and the other side is a lush shag material that feels fantastic against the skin. This throe is very versatile, and it's reversible, so you can use whichever side of the throe that you like. So now you can spill your love juices in your throws of orgasmic bliss without worrying about soiling the sheets! Give yourself piece of mind while you, ahem...get a piece ;)

There is a hidden inner moisture barrier inside of the throw which means even if you spill lubricant, massage oils, or other fluids on the throe, it won't seep through onto your bed, couch, floor, etc. Just drape the throw across your favorite sex spot and get to it. I first used my throe on the couch during a steamy masturbation session, and now I'm hooked! It was great to feel confident that the moisture from my vagina wasn't going to leave embarrassing souvenirs on the couch for my nosey roomie to see. Not to mention the shag material felt fantastic on my ass! The next time I gave the throe a chance to prove it's awesomeness, I got a little action on the bed. This time I wanted to try getting down and dirty on the satiny side of the Throe. It was so yummy! I loved the softness of the satin against my skin, and it made my bed look pretty. The throw is big enough to cover a fantastic amount of your play area. At 5 x 6 feet, this throw is big enough to use by yourself, or with a lover (or two!). The Fascinator Throe also is 100% machine washable, which means there is little need to clean up after an exceptionally messy rendezvous - just pop this bad boy in the washer. Once it's clean, it's ready for next time. Not to mention, this throw is very discreet. if your roomie (or God forbid, your mother!) happened to pick this up off of your bed, they would probably just think it's a blanket. Not to say that you can't use this as a blanket, you can! That's the great thing about the Liberator Throe - it can be used any place and for near anything. I'm thinking of getting one to keep in the trunk of my car, just in case a spontaneous sex session were to occur while I'm not at home.

I absolutely adore my throe! it's become one of my favorite sex accessories. It's a high quality product, something I have come to expect from the Liberator company. This throw also comes in a variety of colors and materials. if you don't want the shag material, you can opt for the micoofiber material, which comes win the same colors as the throw, plus a leopard and zebra print. Shag comes in black, purple, red, blue, and tan. So grab your favorite sex toy, your bottle of lube, and throw and get busy! Interested in getting a little action on the Fascinator Throe? You can buy it right now at Liberator.com for $85 - on sale!

October 5, 2009 1:18pm EST

There is something very sexy about luxury toys. Their quality, their features, their feel, their design and performance. So I was really looking forward to trying out the Utopia from Cal Exotics Couture Collection. This rabbit style vibrator is made of smooth soft silicone, and comes in a pretty candy fuschia pink color. The Utopia is one of a few toys from California Exotics new premium sex toy line. Therefore, the quality is higher, and so is the price. This toy is a bit pricier than most Cal Exotic vibes, but does it deliver? Yes, it does! I was very curious to see how the Utopia performed as a luxury sex toy, and I was actually quite please. The design of the toy is pretty, and very modern. Its a fun looking toy, and the design offers a seamless shaft, that is waterproof, and easy to use buttons so you can control the action with ease and comfort. This is one of the most sophisticated toys I have ever seen Cal Exotics come out with, and I really like this new Couture Collection line. The shaft of the toy is smooth, with a thick head, that is wonderful for vaginal penetrations, while the cute little rabbit near the base of the shaft features long enticing ears that will tickle and thrill your clitoris. The silicone of the toy is soft, flexible, and fits well inside of the body. Also, because the toy is silicone, the material warms well to your own body heat. The Couture Collection Utopia boasts 7 different vibration functions, and 3 speeds. The control buttons are easy to use, and you can switch the intensity of vibrations or the pulsation and rotation of the shaft of the toy with a press of a button. There is even an automatic on/off button which is perfect for when you need to turn your toy off in a hurry (ahem) nosy roommates, anyone? The toy isnt very loud, however its not silent either. You wont hear the vibrations through a closed door though. Id also like to mention that though the vibe is waterproof, dont boil or submerge the toy in water because while the toy is seamless, the buttons are not. You certainly dont want any water or moisture getting into the seams of the buttons, which could cause the toy to break. I would suggest using a toy cleaner on this vibrator, such as toy cleanser or pre-moistened toy tissues. You can also use soap and water, as silicone is non porous, so a good scrub down will keep the bod of the toy clean and safe for many future uses. I suggest using water-based lubricants with this toy, as silicone lubricants could harm the silicone body of the Utopia. All you need is 2 AA batteries, and youre all set to feel euphoria with the Utopia!

The Couture Collection Utopia boasts 7 different vibration functions, and 3 speeds. The control buttons are easy to use, and you can switch the intensity of vibrations or the pulsation and rotation of the shaft of the toy with a press of a button. There is even an automatic on/off button which is perfect for when you need to turn your toy off in a hurry - nosy roommates, anyone? The toy isnt very loud, however its not silent either. You wont hear the vibrations through a closed door though. Id also like to mention that though the vibe is waterproof, dont boil or submerge the toy in water because while the toy is seamless, the buttons are not. You certainly dont want any water or moisture getting into the seams of the buttons, which could cause the toy to break. I would suggest using a toy cleaner on this vibrator, such as toy cleanser or pre-moistened toy tissues. You can also use soap and water, as silicone is non porous, so a good scrub down will keep the bod of the toy clean and safe for many future uses. I suggest using water-based lubricants with this toy, as silicone lubricants could harm the silicone body of the Utopia. All you need is 2 AA batteries, and youre all set to feel euphoria with the Utopia!

The first time I used the Utopia, I found it really easy to use. The silicone material felt nice against my skin. There is about 5 inches or so of insert-able length on this toy, and I found that it felt nice sliding into my vagina. Once inserted, the ears of the rabbit will find there place nestles against your clit. You may have to find a position that works best for you, as all womens vaginas are different, so the placement of the rabbit ears to your clit may take some adjusting on your part. Once in place, I thought the rabbit ears did an awesome job of providing clitoral stimulation. I loved the feeling of the soft supple silicone softly flicking my clit. The pulsating of the Utopias shaft inside of me feel awesome too, and the wide base of the toy was easy to hold onto, which meant that I could even thrust the Utopia inside of me with ease and comfort. The vibrations are nice, not super intense, but definitely not weak. I liked playing with each of the 7 pulsation modes, and I especially enjoyed the highest speed that the toy had to offer. this toys head is slightly curved, which means it can stimulate the G-spot. I found that with deep thrusting, I could definitely feel the head of the shaft stimulating my G-spot. This was definitely a toy that I enjoyed fucking, and once it gave me a delicious orgasm I decided that I liked it even more ;)

You can find the Utopia at ProductEROTICA.com for $134.95 - They're also having a sale throughout the month of October, and a protion of the proceeds will go to benefit the National Breast Cancer Foundation!

September 16, 2009 11:20pm EST

I reviewed the Earth Angel vibrator from MyPleasure.com and I recorded a podcast of my review! Listen to me talk about this vibe, and I let you listen to me crank one out...the toy I mean! ;)

You can stream or download the podcast by clicking the link below:

http://www.scarlets-letter.net/?p=52

August 21, 2009 6:25pm EST

Enter to a Fairy Mini Want from MyPleasure.com - I'm hosting the giveaway on the newer Scarlet's Letter URL, while I am in the process of swtiching things over in the next few months.

Enter to win a Fairy Mini Wand

August 19, 2009 11:01pm EST

Oh. My. God. This toy is amazing. There is no other word to describe it. Ladies, allow me to introduce you to the Mini Fairy Wand. This toy comes straight from Japan. You'll notice this international delight when you examine the packaging. The Fairy Mini Wand collection comes in various little pink boxes, that are pretty and feminine, and feature an English title, which Japanese characters that I couldn't read. The collection includes: The Fairy Mini Wand, AC Adapter, and two attachments. What *is* the Fairy Mini Wand, you ask? Allow me to enlighten you, my sexy readers. This is an electric powered "massager" - much like the Hitachi Magic Wand, *but* unlike the Hitachi, this toy is a lot smaller. This massager is a little over 7 inches long, and at it's widest point is about 1 1/4 inch. The toy is very lightweight - which makes me skeptical at first. A toy from Japan, vague directions on how to work the toy, AND it's so small. Yet it is supposed to be as powerful as the Hitachi? No way! Or so I thought...

I plugged the Fairy Mini Wand into the electrical outlet. It also comes with a battery pack, if you don't want to plug the toy in. I turned the small dial on the toy and it turned on. The tiny little massager head, which looks similar to the Hitachi's massager head, only much smaller, began to vibrate. I continued to thumb over the dial as the massager changed to each higher setting. Here is where I was shocked - this thing is insane! The vibrations are INTENSE. I held the massager head against my palm and watched in amazement as the little massager head vibrated against my palm. It was the most powerful vibration I have ever experienced. This freaked me out and excited me at the very same time. Just *how* was this little toy packing such a powerful punch? I didn't know, but the thought of testing it on my naughty bits titillated me.

I got comfy on the bed, with a pillow behind my head, and lightly rested the head of the Fairy Mini Wand against my clit - through my panties at first, on the Fairy Wand's lowest setting. Ahhhh that felt nice. I slowly increased the speed, which increased the intensity of the vibrations - I writhed, my whole body shook, and I had a seriously body rocking orgasm! This was new to me - I never need to masturbate through a fabric shield. My clit is a champ and can usually take a good beating, but the Fairy Mini Wand had stimulated it into submission even through the protection of my cotton thong. I took a breather, and regained my exposure. This time I bravely removed my panties, and spread my legs. I softly teased the Fairy Wand's head against my clit, once again on it's lowest setting. I could feel my clit throbbing with anticipation. I turned the Fairy Wand's speed dial up, and before long my legs were quivering, I cranked the dial up a little higher and once again was shaken with a seriously toe curling orgasm.

Still shaky from the afterglow of two awesome O's, I fumbled with the two attachments that came with the Fairy Wand Collection - the Clitoral Cup and the Mini Penis. The one attachment looks like a cup, made of a pliable yet firm material, that cups the vulva, which the nubs on the surface of the cup are meant to stimulate the clit. The other attachment looks like a small penis, that can be used for penetration in the opening of the vagina, or for clitoral stimulation. Both attachments are made of the same material.- the only downside is that I'm not sure what material it is, as the package doesn't say, not in English anyway. I believe it could be some kind of rubber material. I don't believe that it is silicone. I should also mention that the Head of the Fairy Mini Wand is made of a firm plastic like material that is smooth and flexible to fit the contours of the body. I'm not sure what type of material that is made with either, but I believe it may be some sort of velvety textured plastic. Since I'm not 100% sure the the material type, I highly suggest only using a water-based lubricant with this sex toy. I should also mention that this toy is not waterproof, and should not be used near water. So take caution when cleaning this toy. I would suggest cleaning the head of the massager and the attachments with anti-bacterial soap and water, or your favorite toy cleanser.

After attaching the Mini Penis attachment, I decided to take it for a ride. I inserted the end of the attachment and turned the Fairy Wand on. The feeling was interesting, while the depth of penetration is very very limited. However, the nerve endings in the opening of the vagina are plentiful, so I did find the stimulation to be really enjoyable. I also like using the Mini Penis attachment on my nipples, it felt fantastic. The Clitoral Cup attachment was next. I attached the cup to the head of the wand and cupped my vulva area with the toy. The stimulation was really nice, for those who enjoy a lot of texture on their naughty bits will probably really like this. I found it enjoyable, but I really loved the clitoral stimulation of the Fairy Wand alone. The attachments are a lot of fun though, and I plan to get a little more creative in the future with these attachments. It would be awesome if they had a G-spot attachment, but unfortunately they do not. I highly suggest getting the attachments which come with the Fairy Mini Wand Collection, but if you'd like the massager *without* the attachments, you can buy the standalone Fairy Mini Wand vibrator with adapters.

This toy has become one of my favorite sex toys. Its discreet, it's light-weight, and it's super powerful. I found the vibrations to be more powerful than the Hitachi. As it takes around 1.5 minutes for the Hitachi to make me climax, but the Fairy Mini Wand took all of around 30 seconds. This toy is not for the faint of heart. This toy will show your pussy who's boss, and I mean that in a very good way. I did a little research, and it looks like the Hitachi vibrates at 6000 rpm at the highest setting. Well, the Fairy Mini Wand vibrates at 12500 rpm! Holy vibration Batman, thats a lot of pussy stimulation! As for noise level, I didn't find the noise of the Fairy Mini Wand to be any louder than the Hitachi, but it certainly isn't quiet- but then again, neither will you be when this sexy seductress of a toy is pressed against your special spot. If you think you're game, I suggest the Fairy Mini Wand to anyone out there who enjoys intense clitoral stimulation. Fans of the Hitachi Magic Wand will covet this toy. It's serious masturbatory business. I can only imagine the fun that can be had while using this with a partner.

You can find the Fairy Mini Wand, exclusively at MyPleasure.com for $69.95 - this may possibly be the best 70 bucks you could spend on an investment for your sex life.


August 15, 2009 9:47pm EST

Slippery, wet, and wild. That is the best way to describe the Liberator Escape Wet. Liberator is well know for it's beautiful and functional sex furniture, so I was beyond excited when they offered to send me the Escape Wet. This beautiful piece is similar to a thin mattress, that is firm yet soft, and makes for a great play stage for sexual activity. Unlike the original Escape, the Escape Wet is covered in deliciously seductive PVC vinyl material. It's sleek to the touch, and the black material simply screams: sex! The Escape Wet is water resistant, and provides a fun place to let your sexual romps just messy and slippery, without worrying about staining your bedding or carpet. SImply place the Escape Wet on the floor, on the deck, on your bed, or anywhere else you see fit. The entire piece is moisture-proof, which means you can simply sill champagne, massage oils, lubricants, and even bodily fluids on it without fear of ruining this fabulous piece of sexy furniture. This piece comes in two sizes, the Regular and the King. The Regular size is quite nice at 50 x 72, while the King is huge and definitely leaves a lot of room for fun at 76 x 72. The mat also comes with a Liberator catalog, and a nylon liner. You can also order it with a portable travel bag for easy travel. The Escape Wet will fold up nicely to fit in the bag to store or take with you on the go.

This mat is fantastic for trying out different sex positions. It's very similar to a low stage, where in this case, you and your partner are the stars. Give your lover a massage and then straddle him right there on the Escape. Spill champagne onto your lover's body and have fun licking and sucking it off of them. You can even use chocolate body paints, and other body paints on the Escape without worry about staining the surface. The possibilities are endless, and thats what I like best about the Escape Wet. You can tell that it is made of high quality material. It's fun to use, and it looks pretty damn sexy, which really only entices you to use it again and again. Since it's made of PVC it's also fun to use for fantasy play or for playing in liquid latex or lounging around on it in PVC lingerie. This piece of sex furniture is comfortable, so much that you could probably fall asleep on it after your sensational session of wet slippery sex. The material feels nice on bare skin, and even when you're sweaty, you don't have to worry about your skin getting stuck to the vinyl. Instead you will slip and glide over it's sexy smooth vinyl cover, even when you're drenched and in the middle of changing positions. The Escape Wet is not only great for sex, but it's also awesome to use during foreplay. Your oral sex can be just as wild and wet as you'd like it to be, and best part about it is - clean up is a snap! Simply clean the vinyl cover after use, and you're all set for the next romp.

This was my first piece of sex furniture from Liberator, and I'm certainly looking forward to trying other pieces from the Liberator shapes and sex furniture collections. Liberator even ahs their own line of sexy lingerie, including Latex Lingerie that would be perfect for using along with the Escape Wet. Let your imagine run wild!

You can see an awesome video from Liberator.com showing some of the great uses for the Escape Wet here.

Interested in trying a Liberator Escape Wet? Buy it now on sale at Liberator.com for only $89. That's about$100 discount off of it's original price.


August 12, 2009 2:38pm EST

I adore Ruby Glass 21. Cynthia and MJ are amazing, they run the company and create the fantastic creations. Their glass toys are superior to any other glass toy company I have tried. Their pieces are high quality, beautiful, and one of a kind. Each piece is hand blown, and detailed with colored glass, nubs, and other decadent details. Each RubyGlass 21 item is like a work of art. Not to mention, this company is amazing to it's customers. I've worked with them over the past few months, and they are such wonderful people. Their customer service is great, and they're always there to answer questions. A friendly business that strives to make all of their customers as happy as can be. Needless to say, I love RubyGlass21.

Cynthia emailed me last month to let me know that MJ has gotten an email of mine right as he was about to work on a new glass piece and that he was inspired by me to create a unique piece. Are you kidding me? What a freaking honor! Cynthia and Mj sent me the gorgeous glass dildo that was created especially for me. It's a scarlet colored glass dildo with waves of glass up the body, with a smaller end, and a larger bulb end, that can be used vaginally and anally. It's such a gorgeous piece! I wish these pictures did it justice, but with RubyGlass21 toys, you really must see them in person to really embrace the true beauty of these pieces.

I send a huge Thank You to Cynthia and MJ, and I'd also like to let all of my readers know that I highly suggest buying all of your glass toys from RubyGlass21. Their dildos are the only glass toys that I trust to put into my body. You can find the RubyGlass21 collection at SexToy.com


August 11, 2009 8:19pm EST

When it comes to vibrators (pun intended) the Bswish brand is always very colorful. Their vibes are generally pretty simple and sleek, there are no bells and whistles, just stimulation all wrapped up in a eye pleasing package. The Bswish Bgee is a perfect example. This colorful G-spot vibe, is 7 inches long, but it's very smooth and slim. Covered in a velvet cote type of material, the body of this toy is soft to the touch and feels silky against the skin. I also like the slim body, it has a rather pin-pointed G-spot head that would be perfect for G-spot beginners, as this toy isn't intimidating nor is it too big. I love the bright burgundy color of this vibrator. The design may be simple, but this toy is bright and very modern. Even the box that this toy comes in looks very sexy and classy, clad in a photo of a sensuous looking lady, rather than covered in porn stars of explicit pictures. This would probably be a toy perfect for a lady who is interested in trying sex toys, but wants something sweet rather than just spicy. The Bgee is a waterproof vibe, so it's perfect to use in the shower if you'd like to. Just don't submerge this toy completely in water, as it does have seams where water could get trapped. This toy can be used with both silicone and water-based lubricants, and clean up is easy, simply use your favorite toy cleaner or some soap and water. If you plan on sharing this toy, it's best to use a condom, since this toy material is porous and cannot be sterilized completely. This toy also requires two AA batteries, which if you're like me, you always have on hand ;)

This toy is awesome. The shape is lovely, the vibrations are delicious, and the design of the toy is pretty much fantastic. The vibrations are wonderful against the G-spot, and yes you can even use the contoured head of the toy on your clit. This vibe is great to hold onto and thrust against your G-spot. The control on the end of the vibrator is easy to access, even during use, and because this toy is so light, your hand won't get tired with repeated thrusting. The only thing that would have made this toy better would be if it were just a little bit more powerful. Don't get me wrong, I found the vibrations to be fantastic on me G-spot, however many women need a lot of intense vibration, so this vibe may not be strong enough for some. I personally thought it was a pleasure to use! It's cute, it's generally pretty discreet, and it's vibrations got me off. So it gets an A+ in my book. This toy would probably be even more wonderful if it were rechargeable - but then again I'm a recharge snob, I adore toys that I can just plug in and let charge. This toy is probably one of my favorite battery charged toys though! This is saying a lot. G-spot beginners, or those of you who enjoy G-spot orgasm with the need for a huge toy, run, don't walk, to get this hot little number.

You can find the Bswish Bgee at SexToy.com for $22.68 - Ladies, that is a steal considering how nice this toy is! One of he more affordable sex toys that actually work.

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August 10, 2009 3:40pm EST

I'm in the middle of changing web addresses. So please bear with me. Here is a link to my Jimmyjane Form 6 review. It's a podcast. My first ever. It's so not the best it could be, but hopefully it gets my point across of how much I like this toy. Feel free to leave a comment, suggeston, or some constructive criticism.


July 30, 2009 4:16am EST

I love discreet mini vibes. They are perfect for go-the-go wanking. I always have at least one discreet vibrator in my handbag everywhere I go. So when I saw how cute the Mini City Vibe was, I just had to try it. It looks very similar to the OhMiBod's Naughtibod. This plastic vibe is coated with a smooth velvet cote material, and the body of the vibrator has ripples on it. Not to mention that this vibe comes in cute pastel candy colors. I have the Lavender Mini City Vibe, and think it's adorable. It's the little version of the original City Vibe, however the Mini is shorter and much slimmer in comparison. This vibe is meant for clitoral stimulation, and requires a AA battery. This mini vibe is waterproof, but it isn't seamless so please don't get any water into the battery compartment during cleaning. You can use anti-bacterial soap and water, a toy wipe, or your favorite toy cleaner. This toy cannot be completely sterilized, as it's porous, but giving this toy a good rundown with an alcohol swab is also a great idea. I should also mention that this toy is NOT meant for anal play. Keep this bad boy on your clit, ladies.

Now onto the test run...
My clit enjoys a lot of stimulation, and unfortunately the Mini City Vibe is a bit too weak for my clitoris's liking. The vibe is super cute, it's compact and very discreet, the design is pretty and modern, but the power behind this little vibe is lacking. This culd make for a good warm up toy, but this probably won't be the toy to give you that toe curling O. Unless you're someone who only enjoys light stimulation on your clit, if thats the case, you're all set with this cute toy. I would also suggest using this vibe on your man. While performing oral sex, you can use this vibe to simulate you guy's balls or perineum. The vibration is enough to add a lil somethin' somethin' to the experience without overstimulating him. You can find the Mini City Vibe for $13.62 at SexToy.com

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July 28, 2009 12:40am EST

Pure Wand. The myth, the magic, the mystique. Okay okay, so I'm being dramatic, but truth be told, this toy has become the talk of the sex toy world. Sex toy bloggers and adult toy lovers one and the same have tales of this G-spot dildo being "The One". I am a huge fan of the beautiful toys that Njoy produces. Their pieces are always high quality, heavy stainless steel toys, that are finely crafted and are known for their uique design and quality. This was one of the toys at the top of my Wishlist, so when I read on the fabulous review that Toy With Me wrote on her blog, I was even MORE interested in this mythically magical toy. Could it be true? Could *this* be the toy that could produce the ever elusive squirting orgasm? Toy With Me insisted that this was the dildo that made all of her gushing dreams come true, so I immediately felt up to the challenge. Having never experienced a squirting orgasm before, I was beyond thrilled and excited to get this glorious object near my naughty bits. Like all Njoy toys, this fantastic pleasure instrument comes in a sleek black gift box with the Njoy pink satin lining. When I first lifted the lid off the box, I was enamored by the Pure Wand.

It is a striking sex toy. More artistic than overtly sexual. It oozes sensuality, from the shape, down to the shiny steel body. When you pick this toy up, you can feel the weight of it's body. It's heavy, and powerful. I could just imagine how sinfully sexy this was going to feel inside of my vagina. One end of the toy is a small round ball, that can be inserted into the vagina or anus. The balled end is curved, so its perfect for G-spot or P-spot stimulation. The other end of the toy is a larger round ball that can also be inserted into the body. It's a great idea to warm up with the smaller end and then proceed to the larger end. Since the Pure Wand holds temperature, you can steep the dildo in a bowl of hot water, or pop it into the fridge to cool the steel. I love warming up dildos, they feel divine as the warm body is engulfed by the added heat inside of my vagina. Being made of stainless steel also means that this toy can be used with any type of lubricant that you like. I love using Njoy toys with silicone lubricant, because a little bit of silicone lube goes a long way on steel toys. You can also use a water-based lube if you prefer though. Cleaning this toy is a simple task also. Anti-bacterial soap and water works wonders, and so does a non-abrasive sex toy cleaner such as the Before and After Toy Cleaner, or Afterglow Toy Tissues (both of which you can find here and here).

To get warmed up for this toy, I had a little bit of fun running the smaller end of the Pure Wand against my clit. The steel was very smooth and seductive, and glided along very nicely against my clitoris. Before long, my vagina was aching to take this baby for a spin. I inserted the small round ball end of the Pure Wand into my vagina, and immediately enjoyed the feel. The body of the Pure Wand made the round ball rest against my G-spot quite nicely. I held onto the larger balled end of the Pure Wand and spent some time pressing the smaller end of the dildo against my G-spot. It didn't take long to notice just how nice this toy felt inside of me, because I was craving for the larger end in no time. Inserting the larger ball is easy as long as you're fully aroused and properly lubricated. Insertion is wonderful. You can feel the weight of the larger ball press against your G-spot, but you can also feel the weight inside of your entire vaginal canal. I tried doing a few kegel exercises while the Pure Wand was inserted, and I found that the weight of the steel felt amazing on my pelvic floor muscles. I held onto the small ball on the other end of the Pure Wand for a handle, and began working the larger end in and out of my vagina. The weight of this toy made the G-spot stim feel even more intense. So I continued to thrust the large ball against it, as the weight of the steel met with the rhythm of my thrusts, I couldn't help but moan with pleasure. My hips began to move with the thrusts of the Pure Wand. It was a little hard to hold onto the one end during my thrusts, as the weight of the Pure Wand began to make it a little tiring on my wrist, but it was so worth it. I couldn't believe how intense the G-spot stimulation was. Even without vibration! Then it happened. I squirted! It was the first time that it ever happened to me, and I was quite surprised. This is the only G-spot toy that has ever produced a squirting orgasm for me. Needless to say, the Pure Wand has me hooked!

Another thing that I wanted to mention is that, this also makes a great couples toy. You can have your partner work the Pure Wand in and out of you, thus not having to worry about a sore wrist, and you can concentrate on the delicious G-spot sensations. Another thing that I tried, which I have never heard of before from any other Pure Wand users, is that I tried this dildo as a double ended dildo. After inserting the larger ball of the Pure Wand into my vagina, I had my partner, with his back to me, sit on the smaller end of the Pure Wand. With our bodies pressed tightly together, we found that with each of us facing away from the other, this caused each end of the toy to position itself inside of us just right. You can us a slow rocking motion, while either laying in bed and moving your hips with your partner or by both partners sitting. Your bodies will be very very close, and it may not work with all couples, as each person's body is different, but if you can manage it, do try it, as I found it to be really sexy and intimate. Thank you Njoy, thank you Pure Wand, not only have you dampened my panties, but you've also soaked my sheets, and quite honestly....what more could a girl ask for? ;)


July 20, 2009 11:43pm EST

One of my favorite sex toy shops is giving away sex toys to various customers wishlists! How cool is that?! Babeland has started a Summer Love Contest. Just create a Babeland Wishlist worth $500 or less and submit it to Babeland. Easy peasy. For details click the banner above, and check out my wishlist below!

My Babeland.com Summer Love Wishlist


1. SaSi - the #1 item on my wishlist. I have wanted this vibe ever since it was first released. The technology geek in me thinks the inner workings of the Sasi are fantastic, and I've heard thigh-quaking reviews about it's performance. This vibe is unique, pretty, rechargeable, and any girl's must-have item. $148 on sale! (Retails for $185)


2. Jimmyjane Little Chroma (red) - Jimmyjane is pure luxury. The Little Chroma comes in a vriety of cute colors, it's discreet and comes with a patented replaceable motor, which means this vibe could literally last you a lifetime. It's also one of the quietest vibe on the market which makes for yummy masturbation sessions, even if you have nosey roommates! ;) This aluminium vibe is a beauty, and is also great at holding temperature so you can warm it up or cool it down. On sale now for $98! (Retails for $125)


3. We-Vibe - This vibrator is insanely cool! IT's the first vibrator that is meant to be worn inside your body *during* sex! It uses state of the art technology to make sex a sensuous vibrating experience for both partners. made of supple silicone this toy is discreet, functional, and sexy. Perfect for couples who want to take the intimacy of sex one step further. $130


4. Earth Angel - This vibe may look like an average sex toy, but it's anything but! This is the first hand crank green eco-friendly sex toy to hit the market! No batteries and no charging needed to use this fun new toy. Simply crank the dial for 2-4 minutes and you'll have up to 1 hour of vibrational bliss. This toy is a must for all earth friendly sex toy users. $95


RO-80MM - This bullet vibe is small and discreet but it packs a powerful punch! It's perfect to keep in your purse for impromptu masturbation sessions. This bullet vibe should be a staple in all sex toy collections!

The total of my wishlist comes to....$496! My goal was to make my wishlist fresh, hip, and full of some of the newest and greatest of the sex toy products that Babeland has to offer. Mission accomplished! ;)


July 19, 2009 2:30pm EST

Sliquid H2O is awesome. Not only is it one of the most popular lubricants on the market right now, but for darn good reason. Sliquid H2O is hypoallergenic, glycerin and fragrance free, and completely water-based, which means it's perfect for use with all toys and condoms. The texture of this lubricant is light and silky, and free of any sugars, which means it's healthy for your vagina and you need not worry about any yeast infections or bacteria. Sliquid H2O is perfect for masturbation, sex, anal sex, and even oral sex - don't worry, it's unflavored, so no icky taste in your mouth. I really like the feeling f this lubricant, and found it to feel awesome against my skin during clitoral play. It feels great on your fingers and hands, if you're stimulating your partner in that way, and will not leave a sticky residue on your skin. It's also non-staining! So your sheets will look just as nice AFTEr your romp as they do before ;) This lubricant is also very easy to wash off, and it washes away clean without leaving behind any film or residue on your sex toys. I've been using this 4 oz bottle of Sliquid H2O lubricant steadily for a week now and the bottle is still nearly full, so a little of this lubricant does go a long way.

I used this lubricant for vaginal play as well as anal play, and I honestly think this is one of my favorite anal lubricants. it's long lasting, makes anal play comfortable and smooth, and the formula is non-drying, so it won't put a damper on your anal sex escapades. Get you 4 oz bottle of Sliquid H2O at WiS for only $10 a pp - I recommend getting two bottles, cause you're gonna love this stuff!


July 16, 2009 2:30pm EST

There is nothing quite like the feeling of a soft wet nicely lubricated masturbation or sex session. I'll be honest, I'm a bit picky when it comes to lubricants. I want my lubes to feel natural, to be free of icky chemicals, and to be long lasting. Needless to say, I recently found one of my favorite lubricants. Ladies and gentlemen, let me introduce you to my vagina's new best friend - Liquid Silk. Liquid Silk lubricant is free of glycerin, it's vegan friendly, water-based, and non-allergenic. I really enjoy the look and feel of this lubricant. It mimics your bosy's natural lubricant, to provide you with a long-lasting non-sticky lube that feels luscious against your skin. One of the coolest things about this lube is that it is biostatic, which means that it stops bacteria from spreading! Which means less chance of yeast infections or other vaginal irritations. This lubricant also lasts a long time, and I found that I didn't have to re-apply the lubricant during use, like I do with most lubes. The texture is silky smooth, and really makes this lube stand by it's name - it truly does feel like liquid silk. The color of this lubricant is a white hue, that I heard was offputting to some people, but it didn't bother me in the slightest. The formula is also fragrance free, which makes me feel good about putting it near my naughty bits.

Interested in trying Liquid Silk lubricant for yourself? You can get a 50ml or 250ml bottle for under $15 at Wild In Secret

Not into ordering over the internet? No worries! Call in your order to WiS at any time


July 14, 2009 1:36am EST

Ahhh the trust ol' "back massager" - it still makes me laugh that the sexy blonde girl on the Adam and Eve Magic Massager box is using this fine instrument on her neck. Yeah, we're really gonna buy THAT excuse ;) I love me some high powered vibrators. When you have tried the Hitachi Magic Wand, and the Acuvibe, it seems strange to think one could find a better high intensity vibrator. However, I am a writer at heart, I'm a researcher, I love to learn and test new things, so even though I wasn't sure how the Magic Massager would fair in comparison to it's more popular massager peers, I was definitely up to the challenge of putting that theory to test! While the box is mostly pretty tame, it also has the Adam and Eve logo on it, which is a company that brand sex toys, adult DVDs, and the like. Whne you open the box and take the massager out, you can see it looks quite similar to the Hitachi Magic Wand, except it's white and red in color. You simply plug the Magic Massager into an electrical outlet, turn it on, and let it, er....turn YOU on. This massager has two speeds - High and Low. It has a switch that is easy to use, and you can even switch speeds easily while the massager is in use, which is always a plus. The size and weight of the massager is similar to the Hitachi, it's a little hefty, but come on, for an electric powered massager one cannot except featherlight weight. The head of the massager is made of soft white material that is pleasant to the touch, and the neck of the head is slightly bendy, which is the "EZ bend" neck that is mentioned in the toy features. This vibrator is powered by a motor built inside the body of the vibe. A motor? Thats right ladies...start your engines.

First off, I'd like to mention that this massager should never ever be used near water! In case that wasn't obvious. Electrical outlets and moisture are not a good match. I would also suggest using a water-based lubricant with the massager. When it comes to clean up, be careful not to get water into the seams of the vibe body or inside the neck of the vibe. I would highly suggest getting some Afterglow toy tissues for easily cleaning of the massager's head. Now that we got all that boring stuff out of the way, let me tell you how this toy works performance wise. It's a bit noisy, but not overly loud. It could probably be heard through a closed door, but probably not in the other room. I used this in my room, while my roomie was in the living room, she didn't hear a peep. However, this vibe is far from quiet, so if you have children living at home with you or if you have roommates, you may want to take note of that. This vibe is fantastic for clitoral stimulation, but it can also be used all over the body including the neck, shoulders, legs, basically anywhere below the neck. Using this toy on Low, it's a nice buzz for sure, you can feel the intensity of the motor. The head of the massager nestles nicely against the clit and vulva, and feels fantastic. Once you warm up with the Low speed, give the High speed a try and see what, er, comes next. I like the vibrations on High a lot. The intensity is similar to the Hitachi and the Acuvibe, but it lacks a bit of the extra oomph that the Hitachi and Acuvibe have. The vibration still feels grand against your clit though, and it's definitely a winner for those who enjoy clitoral stimulation. If you find that electric powered vibrators are too intense for you, I suggest using the massager over your panties, or over a washcloth placed over your vulva, this was give you some nice indirect stimulation without numbing you or being too intense. This massager is almost the same price as the Hitachi, so part of me says just to pay the little extra to get your hands on that bad boy. Honestly though, I did like this massager quit a bit, and I'm glad to have it as a backup if my Hitachi were to break down (gasp!). Overall, this is a nice massager that is great for solo clitoral stimulation, and can also be great with a partner. Hold the head of the massager against your clit and let your partner enter you from behind. Just use your imagination!

Wanna take the Magic Massager for a spin? Get yours now at Sextoy.com for $40.81

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July 13, 2009 2:30pm EST

This stuff rocks! Before & After Adult Toy Cleaner from Classic Erotica is a perfect toy cleaner to have on hand. Toy cleaning is an important part of my sex toy regimen (as it should be in yours!) but sometimes I like to have a short cut...so instant toy cleaner sprays and wipes have become a good companion to keep on my bedside table. This spray is perfect for cleaning toys pre-use, and it's quite simple. Simply spray your toy, wipe it, and you're all set. Before & After Cleaner kills bacteria and germs, and is perfect for use on all types of sex toys. This spray can also remove synthetic odors off of your toys, such as the sometimes yucky silicone fragrance some toys can have. I cannot stress enough how much toy cleaning is an important part of good sexual health. Healthy clean toys helps keep our bodies happy and healthy. The other great thing about this cleaner, is that it can be used on your toys after use also. Need to clean that lubricant residue off of your dildo? Simply spray the toy, and wipe it. You can even rinse it beneath the sink using warm water afterwards if you'd like. This formula helps remove residue and will get your toys squeaky clean without leaving behind any icky odor or film. This is great to have when you're someone who shares toys also, keep you and your partner happy and healthy by using this adult toy cleaner. It's a great value for the price, and a 4 or 8 oz bottle will set you back no more than $10. This spray makes for easy cleaning and it's something I suggest for everyone who is a sex toy enthusiast!

Check out WildInSecret.com to order yours now!


July 12, 2009 3:52pm EST

Quality, steel, climax. These are things I have come to expect from the Njoy brand. The toys that I have tried from this hot brand have been a delight to try, so it's no surprise that I have yet another positive sex toy review from Njoy - the Fun Wand. Made of strong stainless steel, and a sleek heady body, this toy is gorgeous. Like all Njoy tys, this delicious double ended dildo comes in a black box emblazoned with the Njoy name, and lined with soft pink satin. The Fun Wand is both unique and fun loking, with a rounded slightly curved ball on one end, and a graduated set of different sized bulbs on the other end. Both ends of this toy can be used however you like, however the I found the that the single ball end is great for vaginal and G-spot play, while the curved bubled end, is awesome for anal play in both male and females. The Fun Wand is easily to clean, as it can be sterilized in boiling water, or with some anti-bacterial soap and water. I really do suggest storing your Fun Wand in it's case, or in another toy box, to keep the gorgeous steel from scratching. The Fun Wand can be used with any type of lubricant that you prefer. I really enjoy using silicone lube with metal toys, and like with most Njoy toys, a little lube goes a long way, as the lubricant seems to last long and warm well to the steel of the toy. This toy can also be warmed up or cooled down, by storing it in the refridgerator for a few minutes, or by soaking it in hot water. Do not place the toy in the freezer or the microwave.

So how does this toy perform? We have a winner! I adore the Njoy Fun Wand. It's small yet strong, it's heavy without being too bulky, and it fits nicely in the hand. I found that inserting the single ball end into the vagina, you can hold nto the other end and slowly move the rounded ball against your G-spot. The gorgeous steel warms very well to the body, and you can really feel the toy warm up to your body temperature. This isn't really the type of toy that I would thrust with, but it is awesome for G-spot stimulation. Be sure to warm up with some clitoral play or anything else that gets you going. Speaking of the clitoris, I also really enjoyed rubbing the balled end of the dildo against my clit, the weight of the steel applied nice pressure. While this isn't a clitoral toy, I did enjoy teasing my clit with it before I progressed to internal play.

This toy as also great for anal play! Using silicone lube, its quite easy to insert the graduated end of bulbs into my ass. This end is curved, which really adds an increased feeling, and would be awesome for males who enjoy prostate stimulation. Don't worry ladies, you'll love this end also! :) The Fun Wand can be twisted inside of the anus, slipped in and out, or simple slid in and left there. I found that applying a vibrator to one end of the toy while the other end was in my ass made for awesome vibration stimulation in the anus! This toy can even be used in the shower, so feel free to take this into jacuzzi or bathtub for a little play. The Fun Wand would be perfect for couples who enjoy anal play. Though this toy can be used solo, it's also great to share the experience with a lover. However as always, when sharing toys, it is important to sterilize the sex toy before transfering from vagina to anus, to partner to partner. I was thrilled to add this toy to my Njoy collection, and I highly suggest the Fun Wand to any advice sex toy user, or those whoare curious about anal play, this would make an awesome beginners toy! :) You can find the Fun Wand at My Pleasure for $119.95

Be sure to check out MyPleasure.com for quality sex toys, fantastic customer service, and the home of the iPhone App MyVibe, which was recently featured in the NY Times!


July 7, 2009 5:41pm EST

I recently stumbled upon a cute little online shop called Love Sex Laughs, owned by Debra, a sexy lady and multiple cancer survivor. Needless to say, this lady has style and class. Her shop features a lot of really pretty lingerie, jewerly, sexy costumes, adult toys, and more. Her prices are great and she offers a lot of really great inventory that is affordable and super hot. Debra's shop is perfect for couples of all genders and sexual orientations and the layout of the online shp is discreet and easy to navigate. You can find everything from Kama Sutra products, to silk panties, to CZ jewelry and sexy vinyl boots. Check out LoveSexLaughs.com and see if anything tickles your fancy! :)


July 6, 2009 10:47pm EST

Sliquid is one of my favorite lubricant brands. So when Sliquid recently sent me some of their new product line, Sliquid Organics, I couldn't wait to try it. This new organic Sliquid formula is free of parabens and glycerin. It's water-based formula is safe to use on latex and silicone, and it's sleek light texture makes it a real treat to use. I do not like using products that have harmful chemicals in them, especially prducts that I am going to be using on my naughty bits, so I am especially psyched about Sliquid's new organic line. The bottle that the product comes in is both classy and discreet. The lubricant is perfect for sensitive skin and is made with natural ingredients so that you're using a formula that is safe for your body. Sliquid Organics also comes in a gel formula, and a water and silicone hybrid formula. This personal lubricant is delicate and formulated just for women. Check out The Sliquid Shop to find all of the Sliquid Organics formulas as well as the signature Sliquid lubricants.


July 2, 2009 3:35pm EST

I adore Rubyglass21. Their products are gorgeous, and very high quality. I own one of their pieces and it's the prize piece of my glass dildo collection. Rubyglass21 toys are in my opinion, the best glass toys on the market right now. Cynthia and MJ at Rubyglass21 know how much I love their products, and they have offered to give away one of their gorgeous dildos to one of my readers! You can enter to win the Star Dream dildo, in a beautiful purple color. This pretty toy is 7 inches in length, with one end being the handle and the other end featuring a beautiful dichroic helix design. The body of the toy is covered in raised nubs. Each piece really is one of a kind! This glass toy retails for $70, and it really is a gorgeous piece for any sex toy lover out there!

TO ENTER: You must have a Twitter.com account. Simply retweet the message below for an entry into the giveaway. You can retweet the message once per day for additional entries. You must be 18+ to enter. You do *not* need to follow me on Twitter to win.

RT @scarletsletter is giving away a gorgeous Rubyglass21 dildo! Click for details http://tinyurl.com/l3kwp9 RT to enter!

Giveaway begins right now, July 2nd at noon EST, and ends July 6th at noon EST.

A *huge* Thank You goes out to Rubyglass21.com for offering this awesome prize!


July 1, 2009 4:50pm EST

My interview with the amazing Shaye Saldana, marketing and public relations manager of the USA based LELO office. The interview was fun and candid, and Shaye gives us insight about what is coming up on the LELO toy front. Scroll down to read the interview below...

SCARLET'S LETTER: When did the first LELO office open in the USA? Where was it located, and how many LELO offices are in the US now?

SHAYE: LELO was formally opened in the USA approximately 3 years ago. ( LELO has only been around for 5.5 years) and the landing spot for LELO USA was/is San Jose California. A city that escapes the pure hustle and bustle of San Francisco but is a technological powerhouse in its own right. LELO decided that this would be a great place to have an office. (Plus the founders brother lived in San Jose so that helped A LOT!)

SL: Can you tell me more about the new color options for the Gigi and the Liv?

SHAYE: The new color options came from public input and the desire to have something “cool and refreshing” as opposed to our traditional elegant and luxurious colors. We think that these colors bring on a sense of FUN, EXCITEMENT and “A GOOD HEALTHY TIME”. These colors were in the works for a while as we were gathering public response to various colors shades and to which products we were going to apply these extra colors.

SL: Are there any new colors going to be coming out in the future?

SHAYE: LELO is always working on something new. We might be small but we are full of ideas! All I can say is that there has been discussion as to alternative colors to the ones we have for some other the other LELO products.

SL: What seems to be the most popular LELO toy among consumers?

SHAYE: The most popular toy amongst the LELO followers right now has to be the GIGI. Our GSpot toys is one of the most sought after because of its styling, *NEW* colors and of course because it’s a LELO. I would say that second to that is our fancy USB chargeable MIA. She seems to be popular with the traveling women and those who want to keep a little something in their purse.

SL: Are there any more toys that are going to be added to the HOMME line?

SHAYE: Yes. LELO HOMME is going to be expanding soon. One of the new items we are going to be adding is the much anticipated BILLY. He is a prostate vibrator and has been on the agenda for some time but we are finally prepping him for release. We do have some other ones in the pipeline, but of course have to be 007 about those.

SL: What is a typical day like in the LELO office like?

SHAYE: The typical day in the office? Well some folks might things its all LELO all the time, but the fact is, we do a lot of sales and marketing out of the USA office. I am in charge of our marketing and PR for the America’s. This task keeps me working on forging relationships with some of the big named Dr’s out there like Dr. Ava Cadell, Dr. Laura Berman, etc. The people in this office are often on the road training distributors, retailers, helping merchandise as well as attending shows like the AVN show in Las Vegas amongst others.

SL: What is your favorite thing about working for LELO?

SHAYE: My favorite thing about working for LELO is that the name is strong and the people who like to associate themselves with LELO are definitely classy and outgoing. I enjoy hearing the stories about how our retailers put their own spin on the LELO product or testimonials from bloggers or LELO users. I also enjoy the friendships that I have created, the relationships that I have built and so much more!

SL: Are there going to be any new LELO LUXE toys released in the future?

SHAYE: We might be working on some new LELO luxe toys but again…I have to keep it 007.

(Editors note: It should be said that Shaye is a tease... ;) )

SL: If *you* were a LELO pleasure object, which one would you be and why? :)

SHAYE: If I were a LELO I think that I would be EARL. Stainless Steele (with cuff links). I would be hard but could be warmed up or cooled off to change the way I would provide pleasure. I could be dragged across the body tantalizing other body parts aside from the obvious. I then could dress up to go out, since part of the package are the cuff links! :)

SL: What do you think sets LELO apart from the rest of the sex toy companies out there?

SHAYE: I think that LELO’s panache is what does it. LELO has a knack for sensuality and taste and that is what seems to be taking over the market. People are paying more attention to themselves and their needs and LELO is paying attention to those people.

Special thanks to Shaye for answering my questions...he's awesome! If you're interested in LELO toys, check out the official LELO website and store online at Lelo.com


June 26, 2009 12:25pm EST

How would you like to have a stripper pole...in your own home? I do! ;) Stripper poles are so hot right now. They're not just for exotic dancers anymore, stripper poles have become a great way to get exercise and have fun solo or with partners. Well now you can take the fun of the strip club into your own home with the Carmen Electra-pole! This is a professional easy to install stripper pole kit that includes everything you need to work this baby in your own home. Put on your sexiest outfit and give this thing a whirl! First off, Carmen Electra is adorable, like her of hate her, she has an insanely nicely toned body. So having her clad in a bikini while seductively holding onto the stripper pole makes a great selling point ;) The box is pleasant, and it plainly tells you the contents of the kit.

Upon opening the box, you will find everything you need to install the pole in your own home. The kit comes with three chrome steel sections that make for easy assembly, an extendable top section for high ceilings, a cute little storage bag, and a DVD featuring instructions on how to put the pole together. Worried about having to drill holes in your ceiling? You don't have to! With the Carmen Electra-pole you can easily the build the pole and take it down without damage to your home. The pole can be secured between the ceiling and floor by tightening the fixtures. The pole is still very strudy this way! However with this method, the pole can only hold a certain amount of weight (around 220-240 lbs). If you want to install the pole permanently, rather than taking it down and putting it back up, the Electra-pole CAN be screwed into the ceiling and installed this way, which will allow for easy access and more weight allowance.

This pole rocks! it is so much fun to use, and I found it to be very sturdy. It's not a "cheap" product by any means, you can definitely feel and see the quality in the chrome pieces. The pole is heavy nd when completely assembled it's really a super cool addition to your bedroom, basement, or wherever else you choose to use the pole. I thought assembly was very easy, the instructions are simple, and putting the pole together takes probably no more than 10 minutes. Taking the pole down is a breeze also, and I really do like the storage bag that comes with this kit, because it makes it possible to travel with the Carmen Electra-pole. This would be a blast to have fun with at bachelorette parties, or to pack up and take the kit to your partner's house for a little surprise striptease show. The pole is comfortable to use, and nce you practice on the pole, you can even learn some interesting tricks to really spice things up. Pole dancing classes are also becoming very popular in the exercise world, and a lot of women find this type of exercise to be both fun and sexy! Use your pole to get a workout. Practice your sexy moves while toning your legs, buns, arms, and abs all at once. If you attend pole dancing classes, this is a great kit to have at home so you can practice any time you'd like. I'd really like to look into this kind of exercise class, and this pole is what inspired me to want to try it! This pole is perfect for beginners, and I'm sure it would be just as nice for those who have a little more pole dancing moves.

This pole has become one of my new favorite toys, while it's not exactly a sex toy, it was so much fun to review this product and see what it's like to work the pole! ;) I find myself using the pole often, and I'm learning some awesome moves. When I'm done with a session on the pole, I feel energized, sweaty from the action, and super sexy. All of my friends who have seen the pole in my home want to try it out for themselves. It's definitely something that company will comment on if they happen to see it. Mine is in my bedroom, and that is where it's staying for now ;) Ladies, your partner will love watching you work the pole too! It's highly erotic when shared with a partner and is a great way to heat up. It's a form of foreplay in it's own right, to see your lover's body twist and gyrate against the pole. It's also very erotic feeling to bump and grind against the pole, and feel the cold chrome against your skin as you dance against it. Be sure to add some sexy music, dim the lights, and wear lingerie or an outfit that makes you feel your sexiest. You'll have a blast, and give your partner a little thrill in the process.

Interested in getting a stripper pole for your own home use? You can wrap your hands around the pole and take a swing for $162 at Tabu Toys


June 22, 2009 12:20pm EST

Who says you can't celebrate Christmas in the summertime? You can win your very own "Christmas in July" sex toy package from Scarlet's Letter! Okay, so technically it's not July yet, but...close enough! Santa is impatient, and he has a very important package to deliver to you...ahem. I have a beautiful brand new Candy Cane glass dildo from Don Wands. It's so pretty! Made of high quality Pyrex glass, this "cane" shaped dildo has swirls of red all around it. Great for all types of vaginal or anal play. This toy also comes with it's very own plush toy storage bag and a packet of WET lubricant, so you can get down to the, um, "caning" right away ;) I'll also throw in a few other "stocking stuffers" (ahem, Freud would have a field day with this blog entry..) into the package, including a Scarlet's Letter lipbalm, condoms, lubricant packets, etc.

TO ENTER: You must have a Twitter.com account. Simply retweet the following message:

RT @scarletsletter is giving away a Christmas in July sex toy package! http://tinyurl.com/ljf3bl Retweet to enter.

Giveaway ends on June 24th at noon EST. You can tweet once a day. You do *not* need to follow me on Twitter to win. A winner will be chosen and contacted via Twitter.


June 19, 2009 1:15pm EST


I recently won an awesome njoy Pure Wand from Toywithme.com, and to show my thanks, and to "pay it forward" to my other sexy bloggers out there, I'd like to host a giveaway. To keep in the G-spot theme, I'd like to give away a brand new toy that is one of my favorites - the Ophoria Beyond no.3

This silicone dildo is fantastic, pretty, and it's one of my fav g-spot toys. I own this toy and it's brought me much happiness, so I'd like to giveaway a brand new Ophoria Beyond no. 3 toy of your very own! I'll also throw in a brand new box of Shunga G-spot stimulating cream. Feel free to read more information about the toy and to read other reviews of the dildo here

TO ENTER: You must have a Twitter.com account. Simply Retweet the following message:

RT @scarletsletter is giving away a Ophoria Beyond no.3 G-spot dildo. http://tinyurl.com/mgtr93 RT to enter!

You can retweet the giveaway once a day. I'll choose a winner at random. Giveaway begins right now Friday June 19th, and ends June 22nd @ noon EST.

UPDATE: Giveaway is over. Winner has been contacted.


June 19, 2009 11:46am EST

A few months ago, I reviewed the Feeldoe More. Which is the thickest "strapless" strapon from the Tantus Feeldoe line. While I liked the color and the style of the strapon, it was a bit large, so what better item to try next? The Feeldoe Slim, which is exactly what it sounds like: the slim version of the Original, Stout, and More strapons. This toy is made of high quality silicone and is well made, like most Tantus toys. It's a lovely candy coated blue color that is very pretty and pleasant to the eye. The "wearer" end of the toy is a sort of oblong bulb that is inserted into the vagina (or anus), hence it being "worn" internally with the need for a harness. Beneath the bulb end of the toy is an area where you can insert the optional vibrating bullet. The top of the shaft near the bulb end is ridged, so that when the bulb is inserted into the vagina, the clitoris can nuzzle against the ridges of the strapon. The shaft is lean and sleek, much thinner in girth than the Feeldoe More. The head of the shaft is prominient and slightly tapered for easy insertion. The smooth yet firm silicone feels lovely against the skin. Since this toy is completely waterproof and made of silicone, it can be boiled for sterilization. Now that we got the basics out of the way, lets see how this toy works, shall we?

I found the bulb to be quite girthy, so I do suggest a lot of lubricant before insertion. Once inserting the bulb, I noticed that the Feeldoe Slim had a little trouble staying in place, and the shaft began to droop, rather than stand out proud and perky like a real erection. With a little maneuvering and some help from my hands, I found it easier to hold the base of the shaft while in use. It's quite easy and fun to thrust with this toy, and the shaft is perfect for beginners! Whether during girl/girl play or pegging, this is probably a good size for all of you strapon newbies out there :) Using your hands can be a bummer sometimes though, so I honestly think this toy might have been better *with* a harness. That way it truly is a hands-free experience. I do like the idea and design behind the Feeldoe line and find the product to be quite sexy! This toy can also be inserted anally, where the bulb is inserted into the anus. I found this to fit a little better, though still not quite *right*. This strapon on can also be used solo! Simply insert the shaft into your vagina, and grab onto the bulb. A thrusting motion can be used to create a delicious in-and-out pumping effect. What is also kind of fun, is that you can have your partner simulate oral sex on this strapon ;) Suck it, fuck it, it's up to you! I did find that the vibrating bullet was a nice addition, and definitely suggest using it along with the strapon if vibration is your thing. This toy was soooo close to being completely cool. In theory it rocks, in design it's awesome, but I think the weight of the shaft is just too much for the bulb to hold it upright, especially while only being held in my the PC muscles. I also think the size of the bulb that is worn internally could be a little more comfortable. This toy was fun, and I think I like the Feeldoe Slim a little better than the Feeldoe More. Harness next time? That just may be the winning combo!

See for yourself just how the Feeldoe Slim stacks up by checking it out at Pink Cherry Sex Toys for $79.99!


June 17, 2009 4:46pm EST

Incase you missed it, at the beginning of the month I reviewed the fun new Don Wand Treeze butt plug (scroll down if you want to catch-up). The fun new wood/urethane toys that are both fun and eco friendly. Don Wands also released the Treeze Wave Vibe. Yes, you read that right...a vibrator made of wood! Sounds totally weird, but it's an awesome product. This vibe looks similar to other Don Wand vibes, with it's strong shaft and vibrator body that is long and phallic. Thats where the similarities stop. The body of the Wave Wibe is made of beautiful wood, that it coated with some sort of body safe urethane, that creates a beautifully soft and sleek surface. No, you will not get splinters! ;) Oww that would hurt! This wood is body safe and this vibe is indeed meant for internal stimulation. You can use the Wave Vibe just like you wuld any other dildo. The shaft of the toy is detailed with "waves" that create a fun texture. You can get a closer look at the detail in the photo below.

This vibe is waterproof (wood floats, right? ;) just teasing!) and can be used in the shower, or any ther place that you wish. This vibe has 3 different speed settings and 5 vibration modes that with vibrate and pulsate to your hearts desire. The vibrations are nice and powerful. The texture and ridges of the body, and the nicely sculpted head of the toy feel quite nice when you slide the toy in and out of your body, however it may be overkill for some so make sure to use plenty of lubrication. The wood is very smooth to the touch, and can be used with water-based lubricants or silicone lubes. This vibe is just too fun looking. I showed it off to a few friends, who didn't believe me when I told them that there was indeed a vibrator made of wood. This vibe would pair perfectly with the Treeze Bubble Plug that I reviewed in a previous post. This is the sort of toy that you need to see to really believe it. This vibe is pretty but definitely large. It's body is thick and perfect for all of you size queens out there, and it's pulsations seem to transfer nicely through the wooden shaft. This toy requires two AA batteries, and it also comes with it's own plush glass storage bag. Take being "green" to the next level, when you get your hands on their eco friendly vibe.

Interested in trying this vibe out for yourself? You can find the Treeze Wave Vibe at MyPleasure.com for $99.95


June 16, 2009 5:29pm EST

Ladies and gentlemen, introducing the two new colors from the LELO pleasure objects collection! You can now purchase the LIV vibrator in a sweet and sassy Lime Green color It's beautiful and perfect for summertime! Make yourself a mojito by the pool, and then let Liv take a dip into your own waters...It's the same amazing vibrations you've come to love from the LELO brand, only more colorful!

Ships ahoy, sailor! This new GIGI G-spot vibrator now comes in a deliciously flirty Turquoise color! Got the blues? Let the Gigi cheer you up...you'll be singing it's praises in no time. This G-spot vibrator can now tempt and tease you in it's new bright blue turquoise hue.


June 12, 2009 10:14pm EST

My very first Jollies toy. For those of you who aren't familiar with Jollies sex toys, they're a collection of exquisite silicone toys that are both unique and fun. Needless to say, I was beyond thrilled to receive this Jollies Original from Smitten Kitten. If you take a close look at the shape of the Jollies dildo, you'll notice that it doesn't look like other dildos. Rather than having a phallic or oblong shape, this dildo was created from the cast of a real vagina! You'll notice that the tip of the toy actually slides inside to stimulate the cervix, and the bump on the shaft is made for G-spt stimulation. You'll notice that the handle is a finger-hole that you can grasp onto for thrusting. THe ridges along the inside of the handle, leading from the shaft of the toy is made for clitoral stimulation. This toy is meant to stimulate all three "spots" in and outside the vagina, to help produce a sexy full feeling that nearly promises to curl your toes. The Jollies dildo comes in a variety of gorgeous colors, including Sky blue which is pictured above, Rose, Black, and a few others. This toy is made of 100% high quality silicone, and has a softer silicone texture, that is rigid but also flexible. If you eye the dildo up close, you'll see the color details and swirls in the silicone, which makes this toy look like a luscious piece of sexual art.

The Jollies dildo is girthy. It's definitely not a thin or small dildo. It's hefty in size and thick. If you're like me, and you're not used to thick toys, you will need to warm up before using the Jollies. I suggest lots of lube (water-based only please!) and patience. Once aroused and lubed up, you can insert the Jollies dildo, and feel it slip into place inside of your vagina. It feels quite nice, although thick and full, which is perfect for you size-queens out there! ;) Silicone holds temperature well, so you'll notice that the silicone will warm up to your body heat nearly right away, which was a plus. You can slide a finger into the handle and use it to thrust the toy in a back and forth motion, which will stimulate the G-spot and clitoris. This feels fantastic, and before long, you can work up a nice speed and motion. This toy is also good for rocking. Slide the Jollies dildo inside of you while sitting on a surface. Rock your hips back and forth and feel the Jollies dildo move inside of you. This will help it stimulate the G-spot and will also press your clit up nicely against the handle ridges for ultimate stimulation. I found this dildo to be awesome! Not only is it gorgeous, but it's unique and a pleasure to use.

Silicone can be sterilized by boiling the item, which means you can pop the Jollies dildo in a pot of boiling water, or even the dishwasher (if thats your thang) to get it nice and clean. You can also use hot water and anti-bacterial soap. Also, remember that the Jollies dildo should never be used with a silicone based lubricant, as silicone on silicone can damage the material. I adore this toy. It has become one of my favorites, it's beautiful, very well made, and it's definitely a stunner - you can see the quality just by holding the toy and giving it a good once over. It's one of those sex toys that you'll want to show off.

You can find the Jollies dildo at SmittenKittenOnline.com for $95. Its money well spent, when you see the detail and quality that goes into making this silicone treat. Whether you're already a fan of the Jollies toys, or you're a Jollies newbie, get on board with the Jollies Original and enjoy the ride ;)


June 8, 2009 4:08pm EST

I really wanted to review a traditional vibrator, because I know some of my readers are beginners when it comes to sex toys. So I'd like to slow down from all of the silicone and luxury items for a moment to reivew the Doc Johnson Naughty Secrets Velvet Desire. This vibe isn't high tech or intimidating. It's simple, cute, and effective, which is wonderful for vibrator newbies for all ages. This cute pink vibe comes in a velvety smooth finish, and is about 7 inches long, with 6 inches of insertable length. The tapered tip of this toy is perfect for clitoral stimulation, and also makes for easy insertion. The shaft of the toy is smooth and sleek, and is about 3 1/4 inch at it's widest point. The base of the toy is the easy to use dial, where you can change the vibration speed settings. This toy requires two AA batteries, and while it's vibrations aren't very strong, it's ideal for thse with sensitive clits or for those who are just dipping their toes into the waters of sex toy usage. This toy is made of body safe plastic, and what seems to be a velvet cote type of coating that gives the vibe it's soft feel. This toy is also waterproof, and can be taken into the shower or bathtub. However, you still want to be careful not to get water into the cap where the batteries compartment is.

This toy is quite easy to clean, and I highly suggest using an anti-bacterial toy wipe such as Afterglow Toy Tissues. It really makes clean up a snap! This toy is about as noisy as most other traditional vibes, meaning it's not exactly discreet, so this is one of those vibes best kept for alone time. I do like the simple design, the easy to use control dial, and the size of this toy - it's great for thse girls who are just beginning to venture into the world of sex toys! Welcome! ;) You can get your very own Doc Johnson Naughty Secrets Velvet Desire at PinkCherry.com for $14.99


June 5, 2009 3:12pm EST

Every once in awhile I come across a sex toy that is so gorgeous I'm almost a little intimidated to use it. A piece that looks more like a fantastic piece of art than a sex novelty. A toy that is so pretty that I'm kind of weary about sliding it into my vagina. Thats what I experienced when I received this absolutely gorgeous dildo from RubyGlass21. I got to review one of the new 2009 pieces, called Tequila Sunrise, pictured above. This glass dildo is around 7 inches in insertable length and about 1 1/6 in diameter. It's a clear glass flared dildo with a sculpted head that is curved to stimulate the G-spot. Wrapped around the dildo, is a gorgeous layer of amber and purple glass spirals that swirl around the surface of the dildo. I wish you could see this dildo in person! Pictures so NOT do it justice! In photos it's nearly impossible to see the purple hue that is embedded in the amber colored glass swirls. It's so beautiful it's breathtaking.

I have used glass toys in the past, but never have I held a glass dildo and actually felt and saw just how high quality the toy really is. RubyGlass21 takes pride in each of their glass creations, and since each piece is handblown, no two dildos are the same! Each piece is it's own unique creation. You can feel the high quality in the weight of this toy, the glass is heavy and exquisite. The weight of the toy only enhances the feelings as you use the toy. The weight along with the curved head of the dildo makes for fantastic G-spot stimulation. The swirls on the body of this toy feel fantastic as you move the toy in and out of your body. Glass also holds temperature very well, so by placing the dildo in warm water or a refridgerator you can change the temperature which makes for a whole lot of fun! The glass will also warm to your body as you use it, which makes for a highly erotic experience. Just be sure not to put the dildo in the freezer or microwave, as this could damage the toy. It's also a good idea not to change the toy from a hot temperature into a cold temperature, as this could crack the glass. Speaking of cracks, always handle glass toys with care, and check for chips or cracks before use. If a glass toy is damaged, obviously, it shouldn't be used and can either be thrown away or recycled.

Check out all of the fantastic glass toys such as the Tequila Sunrise and others at RubyGlass21.com and if you'd like to buy your very own dildo from their collection check out the RubyGlass21 selection at Sextoy.com


June 4, 2009 2:18pm EST

This is the first time I've ever had wood up my ass. Literally. Don Wands is a well known glass toy maker, but now they've come out with wooden toys! Everyone loves Green sex toys, which are not only good for the environment, but also healthy for the body. So when I heard that Don Wands came out with a new collection, cleverly called Treeze, I was looking forward to trying it. This cute Treeze Bubble Plug is a fun little way to become one with nature ;) This plug looks similar to other anal plugs but the Bubble Plug is made of a Wood/Urethane hybrid that feels soft and smooth to the touch. No splinters here! ;) This wood has a urethane glaze to ensure that the finish of the toy is sleek and clean. This plug has a tapered tip for easy insertion, and features a flared base so that the toy doesn't play magic tricks and disappear inside of you. This plug is about 4 inches high, with a little over 3 inches of insertable length, and it's around 1 1/4th inch of thickness. This plug is perfect for beginners!

This toy is au natural, and is made of body safe wood and urethane. No phthalates! This toy is also easy to clean, just wipe it down with a toy wipe or your favorite toy cleaner. Anti-bacterial soap and water will do the trick also. This toy is completely waterproof! You won't have to worry about your fun getting "water logged", no matter how wet this wood gets! ;) You can use both silicone and water-based lubricants on this butt plug, s go with whichever lube you like best. This plug is cute! I love the woodsy feel of this toy, there is something very charming about it's simple natural look. The toy feels wonderful while inserted, and it stays in place quite nicely. This toy wood...er, I mean, would...sorry, couldn't help it ;) be ideal for males who want a butt plug that has uni-sex appeal. Perfect for bth men and women!

The Treeze Bubble Plug is available at MyPleasure.com for $59.95


June 3, 2009 12:08am EST

I love when I find a lubricant that is a keeper. One that is quality, not sticky, long lasting, and free of icky chemicals. ID Moments is just that. This lubricant rocks! This lube is hypo-allergenic, and is perfect for sensitive skin as it's gentle and very light. This silky smooth formula is completely glycerin and paraben free! I cannot stress just how fantastic this is. I love the sleek feel of this lubricant and it has great lasting power. A little does go a lng way, and best of all, this lube is non-drying. It will stay wet just as long as you do! ;) With ID Moments Lube you don't have to worry about it drying ut right when you're in the middle of heating up. This lube stays moist and is perfect for masturbation, vaginal sex, and even anal play. This lube has a very nice thickness and isn't watery. This lubricant also was rated #1 in Men's Health Magazine, so it's perfect for all of you males reading this also.

I found that this lube was perfect for sex toy play. The formula is water-based and very clean, so it won't make your toys sticky or leave behind any residue. It's also very easy to clean! This lube washes off of skin and fabric with just soap and water, so no worries about staining your bed sheets or pretty lingerie. This lube works wonderfully on silicone toys, aluminium, and any other material you can think of. It's also latex-safe, so it's perfect when practicing safe sex with a partner. This lubricant also has a very pleasant scent, that makes using it a real treat. It's fantastic for use by both sexes, and I'm so impressed with ID for coming out with a lubricant that it not only quality, but completely paraben and glycerin free. I love this lube! You can get your very own bottle of ID Moments at Pink Cherry Sex Toys for $11.88 - this is a great value, and money WELL spent!


June 2, 2009 2:00pm EST

I've seen my fair share of pretty sex toys, thats for sure. So when I knew I would be receiving the Cecile vibrator from Love Moiselle, I was excited. When the toy arrived, I was speechless. This toy is gorgeous! Love Moiselle, from Lover's Choice, makes beautiful ceramic sex toys. Both dildos and vibrators crafted from fine ceramic and detailed so pretty. Cecile is just one of three vibrators in the Love Moiselle line, it's body features undulating curves and the sleek ceramic shaft of the toy feels amazing against the skin. This toy is gorgeous and I can't wait to try the other LoveMoiselle toys.

You can find the LoveMoiselle collecton at Ophoria Toys


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